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Parents treat their children clean depends on three conditions: first, all tube, tube, do a lot of things, it was bad; the second is nothing, and nothing is done, let, and more bad results; the third is the tube but not all tubes, doesn't do much, but to the point, children free. Exceptional parents never choose "and not for" more specifically, do only three things.
First thing: develop good relationship good parent-child relationship is better than a lot of education. When parents and children relations better, education for children is likely to be successful; when bad relation with the child, to a child's education is likely to fail. Establish good parent-child relationship, the key lies in "location":
1, not "judge", "counsel"
Some parents see their children out of the issue, could not wait to become a "judges", which is very dangerous.
The inner world of the child, the parents have to positively influence and educate our children, do not know will not be able to talk about their inner world. Child care is the first secret of their self-esteem, to preserve their rights and become a trusted and respected friend.
Parents treated their children as "lawyer" treat their clients to understand their inner needs, and always with for the sole purpose of defending their legitimate rights.
2, not as "referee" learning to do "cheerleaders"
In the arena of life, children can only try. Parents cannot replace child shouldn't presume to be "referees", which should give them a good game, that is, "cheerleaders". Like this can help kids build confidence, which is the central task of education.
Parents do their children's "cheerleading" should not only be good at discovering and praising the child, but also to guide children properly faced and in frustration before the child's friends.
3, not as "trainer", the "mirror"
Children only awareness can overcome their own, but they usually can only be based on feedback from others to know themselves, when the parents of the "feedback" function mirror's role is very important.
Not "trainers", "mirror", can help raise consciousness, to make children not scared parents of "authority" and to communicate with their parents.
Education teaches is three points, seven points, and so on. "Wait" is very useful. We take a mosquito, I don't care, soon will be fine, if the total to scratch, but take a long time to get good. Because the human body has a certain degree of self healing functionality, mosquito bites you'll get better soon, force would be counterproductive.
Education is also the truth. Stop, wait, give the child the opportunity to talk, and children to communicate effectively without education can solve the problem.
The second thing: to cultivate good habits in children the fate of children, nothing is more important than habit. If parents do not pay attention to cultivate good habits in children is undoubtedly ruin children a better future.
1, all from the habits begin to develop education is education of tube life. Intellectual education is good thinking habits, habits of moral education is a small, quality education is reflected in the small actions.
Facts prove that habits are a strong force can dominate a person's life. All starts with habits of children.
2, the habit is by no means a day habit is a big problem, is great wisdom. Good habits is by no means a day of work, its main principles are: low threshold and strict requirements, small steps, a fast paced, multi activity, change, get feedback and correction.
Habit is the key in the first three days, decide in a month. Parents with full respect for the rights of the child, let the child in the habit of playing the master role.
3, through the casting habits as character education sea going vessels, you must press the correct route, or bigger ship ran aground in danger of sinking.
Human quality determines the direction of human development. Family education a core task is to train children to become a real person. Personality cultivation problem is often difficult to put into concrete action.
However, the researchers found that the habits and personalities complement each other and used to influence personality, personality will also affect habits. Decent, honest, responsible, caring, cooperation, efficient character can cast the third thing by habit: children learn how to learn the third thing: attracting children to love learning, children learn how to learn is an important duty of parents, but also a parent's real charm.
1, child tired of learning is there for a reason let it, let it cool; pipe blind pipe, sow beans; nagging grumble, wanton abuse; instead arranged to create a "machine" ... ... If parents and so on is not a sensible approach will only make the kids love learning.
Children love to learn is more apparent, there is a good reason behind: there is no good study habits? Children do best is not found? There is no scientific brains? Parents hinder children's "play school" nature? Is the kids don't realize that learning is his own thing ... ... Finding the reasons behind, can help children out of the shadow of weariness.
2, the child's thirst for knowledge and learning potential of children lack of curiosity are stimulated, usually are not parents or strict enough, but blocked the child's interest.
Interest (curiosity), dreams, sense of achievement, challenge, Thanksgiving, strenuously, making is clear and inspired children's thirst for knowledge channel. For a child, the so-called competitive advantage is the potential for effective development. Mood, resuscitation, hint, reverie, incentives, the plan is to develop the capabilities of children learning the six major principles.
Potential development although not absolute "schedule", but there are steps, such as goals, controlling emotions, sharpen will, focus point is very important.
3, children first is a method of "love" is "how to learn", and "how to learn" is "love" that "will" in order to "learn".
Children want to test first, must have some good ways to play a decisive role, such as: as planned, carefully writing, read textbooks, sorting errors, readily notes, help students, efficient examinations, free composition, and so on.
Now a lot of parents in the education of kids into a new myth, namely blind slavish obsession with success even to teach tutoring experience, but the experience look easy, but hard to do. Because they are not "portable", if you just cloned, imitation will not be able to implement their own child's body, but easier, "learning" and counterproductive.
The most useful thing is really needs to calm down and think, refine. Teaching children and not as complicated as parents imagine, pays special attention to the three parent-child relationships, habits, learning events, parents became a prominent parents, children become eminent child, it is not a distant dream.